Life can get overwhelming and we could find ourselves in tough situation where we would need a second opinion.
Do you have a question to ask?
Yeah, I thought so. Well, don’t keep it to yourself share your experiences and ask me sex and relationship questions anonymously. Please make questions as brief as possible to make sure you get a response.
You cannot force someone to have sex with you against their will. When she is ready, she will do it
Let her go. You can always find another girlfriend
There is something this side guy of yours does that you like. you should be able to figure it out and communicate this with your husband. Is there a way this side guy touches you or kisses you? let your husband know exactly what turns you on and excites you. communication is crucial to having a successful sexual life.
What do you mean by cheat you? You have to be clear
Okay, I understand your dilemma. To be honest, I do not think his intentions are honest Number one, he has a GF of 8 years that he doesn’t want to break up with. It’s just like dating a married man. They will tell you they would divorce their wives for you but they don’t ever do. I do believe if he is taking you seriously, he should be man enough to end the relationship and stick with you If you decide to be with him, he won’t see you as someone who values herself. You knew he has a GF but you still settled. Don’t settle
Number 2, .he walked you out when you refused him sex? That’s shitty. You have reasons for not wanting to have sex and if he truly likes you, he would respect that reason and not ask you to leave his house.
Number 3. He gave you 20k, so what? tell him thanks and move on. Do not feel like its an act of love or something.
Number 4, he wants to know your family? Does he even you well? On what grounds is he coming to see your family? As the guy who has a GF but wants to mess with their daughter for the mean time? Love without actions is fantasy. If he truly loves you, let him just break up with the other girl and be with you. Let him also respect your decision not to have sex yet
To me, he is not a genuine person and you may be liking him because he appears nice ( by giving you 20k and wanting to see your family) If you say yes to him, you are agreeing to be his side chic. Nicer people who are honest with their intentions will come your way.
if you can, let this man go. He does not value you